Okay, so I was talking to my friend, who have broken up with her man about two months ago. He recently called her and asked if they could be friends, so she asked me what I thought. My intial reaction was Oh, H No! I wouldn’t want my ex saying lets be friends because I wouldn’t want to feel like I was being downgraded (on top of the heartbreak). How to you go from laying in my bed to calling and saying, “Hey homie” (not feeling that). But, after I calmed my nerves (you know I’m dramatic) I came up with a few more reasons an ex would want to be friends. First, they might just really miss you and if nothing else want you to be present in their life. Secondly, he might just want you back (And I do mean all of you) and don’t know how to apologize. Thirdly, they might just feel bad for the breaking up with you (who wants pity). I don’t know about you, but the end of a relationhip to me means the beginning of a period of mourning and depression while I heal from the pain (that’s probably the poet in me). I want nothing to do with an ex, epecially if I was the one left brokehearted. What do you think, could you be friends with an ex or someone you used to sleep with?