One the eve, of two of the hottest, young, successful, black,and gorgeous couples on calling it quits…………… is simply devastating. I think that it is nothing short of beautiful to see young, powerhouse couples trying to make it work; balancing work, play, children, home life, and family. From the outside looking in, it looked perfect. I mean Eva and Lance showing up at every red carpet supporting each other’s career and Monica and Rocko looking like the “modern-day” family on her reality show. What happened to make these couples find the demise of their relationship? Being a young wife and mother, believe me; I know the challenges of keeping a relationship afloat. But, my question is, Is it possible for a young, black couple keep their commitments to one another and to make it to their “old and gray” days together. I find it discouraging that relationships seem to be as fragile as glass, do you mean we as young, black couples don’t have a chance? What is the reason for the breakdown and disconnection…………… maybe it’s immaturity; the lack of committment (we have seen the last days of when woman will accept anything from a man); not willing to sacrifice; not seeing healthy relationships to model; dealing with individual demons and urges; cheating; or just plain running its course. What happened to the days where people lived happily ever after or is that just a fairytale. Not only in young, black hollywood; but in my personal life and the people around me……….. relationships are being tested and we are failing the assessment. Unfortunately, I wished I had the solution or the answers. I just hope that whatever it may be, that we tap into it soon! Please give me your opinion on the breakdown of young, black relationships. I’m interested to know.